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kay_gmdFitness is going well, 3 bouts of exercise bike so far this week, and I'm planning on one more, and my speed seems to be improving. I've also been poking at some fitness apps.
I had an epiphany on the judgement thing:
This morning I said about a group that I have some significant disagreements:
"They're kind of fruit-loops, but they'll help."
and Groblek the font of wisdom and understanding said
"Yeah, I have some serious theological differences with them, but they're good people."
and that was honestly what I meant, but words, and how we use them are important. Where my statement judged the group Groblek's acknowledged the value of the people involved while owning the difference that exists.
This is what I am striving for. I don't think I'll stop having opinions about what people do, but I want to still be able to value the person.
I had an epiphany on the judgement thing:
This morning I said about a group that I have some significant disagreements:
"They're kind of fruit-loops, but they'll help."
and Groblek the font of wisdom and understanding said
"Yeah, I have some serious theological differences with them, but they're good people."
and that was honestly what I meant, but words, and how we use them are important. Where my statement judged the group Groblek's acknowledged the value of the people involved while owning the difference that exists.
This is what I am striving for. I don't think I'll stop having opinions about what people do, but I want to still be able to value the person.